Please include these in the essay! Chapter 9: Hope If we hope, is that the same as not dwelling on the incident? A person who always hopes, an optimist? or do you think this hoping action could be unrealistic? Chapter 22: Forgiving Ourselves and Others Who does forgiveness benefit? Does forgiveness mean what the other person did was okay? If you forgive someone and he/she still does not think he/she did anything wrong, has forgiveness truly taken place?